Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Importance of being truthful in today's world!

         Truthful means being or expressing the truth; being honest.And ‘Human’ means relating to or characteristic of humankind.But is it important to be human you should be truthful too?Specially in today’s time when manipulation,corruption,unhealthy competition are at it’s peak,is it possible to be truthful! Well to answer this question’s we need to understand the importance of being truthful as humans.A man’s character can be judged by his values.As Gandhi said that character is based on virtuous action and virtuous action is grounded on Truth.However is it always right to be truthful?
Humans are social animal.We like to live our life with our family,friends or other fellow beings.It’s a phycological need for us.And to build a relationship with other fellow human beings there should be trust.Which comes from being truthful to each other.As truth is one of the virtue that can never be hidden.Even the ancient Indian history sites stories like raja Harishchand who sacrificed everything for the sake of truth.Prophet Mohammed’s philosophy of religion was accepted by people of that time because he was known for being truthful or trustworthy.Also,to succeed in any field be it in business,job,studies one needs to be truthful.It brings tranquility and stability whereas lying brings pain,confusion and uncertainty. Lies can’t be hidden.Gandhi’s autobiography “My experiments with truth” is one of best work on the importance of being truthful.Where he famously states that“Truth is like a vast tree, which yields more and more fruit, the more you nurture it.”One should also note that as human being we also should be truthful to our own self.Cause if you can’t be honest to yourself you will loose self respect and will fail in the most of the things in life.Also that will result in having no respect in the society.
        Humans are also the only living being who has the ability to lie.According to various studies it has been found that human children start lying when they are as young as six months of age.To seek attention children lie through fake crying or laughing.As time passes we  become good in it.But with time we learn from mistakes and work on our this kind of cognitive behaviours.As lies brings bad name in society or we loose the trust of others we try to reduce it.But again lies can bring fortune,short-term glory,popularity,thrill etc.But as we have already discussed it’s a temporary thing and doesn’t last forever.Though it is important to be truthful but in some instances one should know when it is better not to tell the truth.A harmless truth is always the best thing to stick with.Truth that can hurt someone,can cause a grater damage to a honest man or society should be avoided.Lying for self protection,to save someone’s life from evil factors are consider as a greater truth. What’s important is, being sensible with respect to the situation and time.Otherwise lies should be avoided at all cost cause bad habits like this become habitual in no time.
         Truthfulness has a great impact on a human’s spiritual self too.Lies brings fear,disturbance,confusion in our minds.Specially in modern time where human’s are out of tune of their own self.Which makes human being more vulnerable to depression,neurosis and instability of mind,spirituality has became a prominent factor in day to day life.To attain spirituality one have to be truthful.
        Not only due to benefits and loss as a social species it is our moral obligation of being truthful to our fellow human being.Not only it bring self satisfaction in long run,it’s also a human’s responsibility of being the most smart living being of this planet.So,though to be human it might not be necessary to be truthful but it is of course important,healthy and always the best choice to make if it possible.It’s after all the choices that we make that makes us human.
       We can now safely say that being truthful is absolutely prominent to man’s welfare.After all we are immortal being.All of us do want to keep a good name behind before we die.On the death bed nobody wants people to curse them or remember them for their lies, the trust he broke.As there is a saying that when you came to the world everyone laughed and you cried,but when you die you should be the one laughing and everyone around you should be crying.That’s the essence of a well lived human life.So I would like to conclude this easy by saying be truthful,be human